The answer to this question should be "NO"....
I was just reading an article about youngsters signalling their devotion to their bf/gf by sharing passwords....be it Gmail, Facebook, Twitter or other accounts...Some reason it by saying "it's a sign of trust"... really?? If sharing passwords mean trust then what a Lame Lame world...!!!
Think about this, you and you bf/gf are sharing passwords with each other, say a Facebook account password. For some reason, you guys break up and consider it was a break up which involved heated arguments which turned out to be really bitter....Before you even realise anything, your bf/gf could login to your account and post something which can be shameful and disgraceful. Can be any intimate pictures, messages, anything....By the time you could change your password, the harm would have been done...
One more example of how sharing a password can hamper your relationship....Imagine, there is this random person who sends you a friend request and you accept it seeing that you had one or more "mutual friends". I'm sure you don't think too much before you accept a friend request. What harm could it cause me? is what you'd think.... So, without thinking much, you accept it. And then this random person sends you a dirty message on your inbox or say, posts it on your wall. Your bf/gf happens to login to your account and sees the message... Do you think he/she will consider you innocent, even if you are?? 99% of you would say "No"....
Some time back, almost 6 months ago (maybe more) I had read a true-life incident that had happened in Bangalore. A newly married lady on her marriage night receives a text message on her phone saying "I enjoyed having *** with you" from a random number. The groom happened to read it and he filed for a divorce the very next day even after the lady begged her innocence.
When the number from where the message sent was traced by the Police, it came to light that the guy who sent the message was a Psycho who kept forwarding such messages to random numbers... and the poor lady had to pay the price....
My take on this is- when you are in love, you don't need to share your passwords to prove that you trust each other but rather proved through your actions and the care you have for each other... If you share your passwords it only means that you are insecure and so, there is no point of being in such a relationship....
So honey, please don't ask me for my password and don't give me yours... I trust you and I love you....is what you should be telling each other... :)
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